Christmas and baby showers are two of the most significant events that everyone looks forward to, but we all know that there's always one person who wreaks havoc on these occasions. In this article, we will talk about how to ruin Christmas, the baby shower edition. You might be thinking, "why anyone would want to ruin such a joyful event?" but trust us, some people go out of their way to spoil things. So, let's get started with a list of the ways to ruin these celebrations.
1. Be A No-Show
One of the easiest ways to ruin any event is not to show up at all. Imagine the host spent hours or even days organizing a baby shower or a Christmas party, and you don't show up! It's not only rude, but it's also a waste of their time and effort. If you don't want to participate, it's better to decline the invitation politely than to be a no-show.
2. Show Up Late
If you decide to attend the baby shower or Christmas party, make sure to arrive on time. It shows respect for the host and other guests. However, if you show up late, everybody has to wait for you, which can be frustrating and potentially ruin the party's schedule.
3. Criticize The Host's Work
The host put in a lot of effort to make this event happen, so criticizing their work is one of the quick ways to ruin the party. Maybe you don't like the decorations or the food, but there's no need to voice your thoughts aloud. Instead, thank the host for the time and effort they put in.
4. Bring Unwanted Guests
Unless the host specifies otherwise, don't bring uninvited guests to the party. It's not only disrespectful but can also create tension among the guests. If you do want to bring someone, ask the host first to avoid any awkwardness.
5. Be Overly Competitive
Games and competitions are an essential part of baby showers, and sometimes also holiday parties. However, if you're too competitive, you can ruin the fun for everyone else. Remember that it's a lighthearted game, and everybody is there to have fun. Plus, no one likes a sore loser or a boastful winner.
6. Start Unpleasant Conversations
Conversations are a great way to socialize and bond with others, but some topics are best left out of the discussion. If you bring up touchy or controversial topics, it can ruin the party's mood and create unnecessary tension. Stay away from topics such as politics, religion, or any highly personal matters.
7. Bring Noise-Makers
Noise-makers, while fun and festive, can be a nuisance at times, especially if used excessively. If you feel the urge to use noise-makers or any-party accessories, ask the host first or see if other guests are participating. Also, make sure that your noise-making doesn't interfere with the party's flow.
8. Refuse To Help Clean Up
Parties are never complete without a good mess, but it's not fair to leave it all to the host to clean up. It takes time and effort to prepare and organize a party, so it's everyone's responsibility to help keep the venue clean. It's not only courteous, but it also shows respect to the host.
In Conclusion
The above-listed points might seem obvious, but you would be surprised how often people ruin occasions without intending to. It takes a little effort to make someone's day enjoyable, so let's be good guests and prioritize the host's feelings over our own. Let's make every Christmas or baby shower an unforgettable memory for all the right reasons- by being considerate and graceful guests.
